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FIRE Your Friends: A Woman's Guide to Becoming Her Own Best Friend Kindle Edition
Have the courage to fire, hire, or promote people within your inner circle.
“Fire Your Friends: A Woman's Guide to Becoming Her Own Best Friend” introduces you to 5 powerful girlfriends who live within all women. Your new best friends will make you laugh, cry, think, and ultimately fall in love with the woman in the mirror: YOU. They teach you valuable lessons that will help you create a healthy relationship with yourself FIRST.
Here are a few things your new best friends will teach you to help you fall in love with one of the most interesting and exciting people on the planet: YOU:
•Discover your life purpose and God-given gifts
•Look within yourself FIRST for answers you seek
•Use the pain of your past to create a successful future
•Design the life you REALLY want with positive thinking
•Overcome the fear of failure to achieve your wildest dreams
After your new best friends show you how to become your biggest fan, they will help you to develop emotional intelligence to manage relationships that will TRULY nourish your life. Here’s why?
Did you know that food IS NOT the PRIMARY source of nourishment in your life? Did you know that your relationships ARE the primary source of nourishment in your life? Have you ever noticed your eating habits AFTER you have a fight with someone you care about? Since relationships play a major role in life, your new best friends will help you to:
•Identify and eliminate toxic relationships
•Create an exit strategy from an unhealthy relationship
•Learn how and when to distance yourself from someone
•Network to build meaningful relationships that will add value to your life
Finally… advice about your most important relationship: the one with yourself. Establishing this important relationship will set the tone for all others in your life.
WHIP OUT SOME PINK SLIPS!!!
- LanguageEnglish
- Publication dateJanuary 28, 2013
- File size2269 KB
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- ASIN : B00B7PP8Q8
- Publication date : January 28, 2013
- Language : English
- File size : 2269 KB
- Text-to-Speech : Enabled
- Screen Reader : Supported
- Enhanced typesetting : Enabled
- X-Ray : Not Enabled
- Word Wise : Enabled
- Sticky notes : On Kindle Scribe
- Print length : 164 pages
- Page numbers source ISBN : 1480079278
- Best Sellers Rank: #3,489,929 in Kindle Store (See Top 100 in Kindle Store)
- #1,033 in Dreams (Kindle Store)
- #1,558 in Codependency (Kindle Store)
- #4,054 in Codependency (Books)
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About the author
Shalena D.I.V.A. is an author, speaker, and certified master life coach who has shown thousands of women how to discover, invest, value and appreciate their God-given gifts and talents. She grew up in a rough neighborhood in South Philadelphia that was plagued by violence where so many young men were senselessly murdered, including her older brother. She saw first-hand how drugs can destroy communities and families, especially her own.
She observed her father go from being a beautiful black man and loving father to an enraged, drug fueled person who tried to kill her mother one night when she was about four years old. After years of IV drug use, her father became infected with HIV and eventually lost his battle with AIDS. Her stepfather sold drugs throughout most of her childhood which always
put her family directly into harm's way. One time, her stepfather was kidnapped by a rival drug gang right before her eyes. They held her and her little brother at gunpoint during the assault. She was 12 years old and her brother was 3 years old at the time. Eventually her stepfather was taken down by Federal agents and sent to prison for 9 years. This shattered her family life and took a heavy toll upon her little brother.
With so much negativity all around her and the lack of positive role models, Shalena D.I.V.A. could've given up on her dreams of graduating from high school and becoming the first person in her family to attend college. Yet, somewhere deep within she found the courage to hold on to her dreams. She was accepted to the University of Pennsylvania and awarded the Philadelphia Mayor's Scholarship, a four year scholarship. However, she attended Duke University instead where she was awarded The McGaughey Higgins Scholarship, also a four year scholarship. She earned a degree in Political Science and graduated from Duke in 2001.
Upon graduating from Duke, Shalena D.I.V.A. worked for a Fortune 500 company until she left this high paying job in March of 2006. She wanted to put more energy into empowerment writing--her true passion! In May of 2010, after seeing the need for a comprehensive online resource for young women of color, Shalena D.I.V.A. created www.shalenadiva.com, an educational, enlightening, and entertaining website that serves as a platform for women to better their lives and build their businesses. It also addresses issues such as health, self- esteem, mental health, financial literacy, to name a few. She also founded the Shalena D.I.V.A. Corporation in
2010 to provide empowerment products and services.
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i contacted you in october 2012. i was very sad because of my past failures and mistakes. i dont know what led me to writing you a letter, but i did. when you replied and directed me to reading your book, i thought that all you were trying to do was get me to spend some money...i was wrong! you were trying to give me the tools i need to become a D.I.V.A as well!
i purchased the book from amazon in June and read it after seeing the positive reviews. everyday you had another great thing to share! Shalena, this book is amazing. I've always been the type to run to my friends with my problems, but i've learned that they cannot always help me, and that sometimes they may have ulterior motives. Sometimes our friends don't even know how to help us. But you reaffirmed in me that i am capable of being my own friend and helping myself!! I now have 4 new friends that I didn't know I had!
I just wanted to publicly say thank you Shalena for this book. I hope this will not be your last. You make young girls like me truly believe that anything is possible. I've been following your Facebook page and i have seen your progression and i am so proud of you.
take care and god bless you Shalena!
I also had to set boundaries with myself. Yep, myself! Who would have thought I was holding myself back? This book was eye opening. I will be gifting it to some wonder people for Christmas and birthdays this year!